End-of-Life Decision Making

End-of-life decisions are never simple. They require deep compassion for those facing serious illness as well as for the loved ones who will carry on. While these conversations can feel difficult, making your wishes known in advance is an important act of care. In situations where you may be unable to speak for yourself, clearly expressed preferences can guide family members and caregivers, helping ensure that decisions respect your dignity and values. The New York State Catholic Conference also offers a range of resources to support Catholics and others in navigating these important choices.

To make this process more accessible, the New York State Catholic Conference has created a helpful booklet, Now and at the Hour of Our Death, which brings together essential guidance on end-of-life decision-making and outlines the legal options available to New Yorkers for advance planning. Individual hardcopy booklets are available free of charge. Bulk purchases are 50 cents per copy for up to 50 copies, and 34 cents per copy for amounts above 50 copies. Email [email protected] or call 518.434.6195. 

For those outside New York, additional resources and state-specific information can be found through Catholic End of Life, offering education and support grounded in Catholic teaching.

Booklets are available as a PDF download in English. En español aquí.

The National Catholic Bioethics Center health care proxy form is available for purchase through digital download or print here.

The NYS Department of Health proxy form is available as a PDF download here.

Read the Vatican’s statement on the care of persons in the critical and terminal phases of life here.